Ruffles
Although I haven’t been actively working on the Handsome Triangle shawl for a week or so, I have been thinking about it a good deal. Especially thinking about how much fun it will be to wear it and how flirty, coy, and feminine that ruffled edging will be.Â
Actually, I don’t think that many people who know me well would describe me as flirty or coy or even that feminine in the traditional sense. Yet I find myself drawn to these ultra-feminine shawls–in fact, I also own the pattern for the “Flirty Ruffles Shawl” from Fiddlesticks Knitting and a large cone of Zephyr wool/silk with which to make it.
Who among us hasn’t fallen in love with a project that just doesn’t really fit the public image we’ve created for ourselves? It’s part of the magic of knitting–the ability to create a new persona for myself with yarn, skill, and my own two hands. To create the persona while creating the cloth–to craft a new self and be able to literally try it on for size. To give myself the gift of living, for a little while, a different kind of life as a different kind of woman: the kind of woman who wears ruffles, who flirts outrageously, who is unabashedly selfish, who can make strange men fall in love with her on sight.
It’s a lot to expect from a ruffled shawl, I know. Some day, when the shawl is done, I’ll let you know how that woman is doing.Â
January 24th, 2007 at 11:48 pm
A completely delightful post! I’d say more, but the NSF has destroyed my capacities for expression…
January 25th, 2007 at 12:06 am
Sounds like that woman is doing just fine!
January 25th, 2007 at 9:11 am
Sarah, I really loved this post. There are so many sides to all of us. I’m grateful you have a way to connect with that one of yours.
January 25th, 2007 at 2:54 pm
I’m trying to become a woman who wears shawls – perhaps when I knit my first one for me, I’ll do that! I hope your journey is all that it promises.
January 25th, 2007 at 7:09 pm
Perfectly lovely, Sarah, and glad to have your back from your respite (although one week is a short respite). I think that woman who wears the flowery shawls is more you than the public persona, because it’s the private, little seen you. At least that’s how it is for me. This post is a keeper–to reflect and ponder about those different selves. Thanks.
October 23rd, 2007 at 1:51 am
I would love a similar lacy edging to put on a heavy-weight shawl. Do you have any ideas?
Thank you
10/23/07